You are not here to help anybody.
(Don’t market your pains generally)
Today, most people who are willing to make an impact in the world are doing these things wrong.
Building an entire brand around their healing journey or ongoing journey.
When you directly try to convince people to give you money.
Or in short.
When you try to market yourself as an authentic storyteller who has suffered a lot, done this or that, you can’t sell to resonating people.
That’s an absolute truth.
Because you accept this first, it’s not a good idea to want to bring back the thought patterns when you experienced the pains.
It’s impossible not think of them while agitating the audience with that.
When you know the result, tangible result, and you can help picture the difference between the results of before and after life without sharing the actual pain, system, or scenario with people, you attract the right kind of people.
There are high chances that your offer is not ready yet because you are trying to market your ongoing painful journey and you can actually never come out of it fully (even if it’s one percent) when you can’t explain what tangible results you have achieved (results that are readable, measurable according to human mind) how can you picture the mindset of before and after of your journey without naming the pain directly.
Just a glimpse of your journey in easy words (that a human mind can grasp) is enough for you to earn profits even if the offer is not clear yet.
Don’t ask
How can I earn from my healing journey?
Ask what mindset shift my healing journey gave me to get this-this and these results in life today, and how can I inspire people to experience such a possibility in life?
The impactful work is a play.
The experience can become the best and most authentic USP ever; there is no doubt in this.
But you really can’t serve best when you present yourself after association with past experiences.
Authenticity needs no proof.
The details of your painful experiences must not be generally presented to the world; that’s against soulful and impactful storytelling.
Your entire brand is based on your experiences (the rule is to not directly add your name and painful past), use a simpler explanation quoted with some experts you follow without exerting any negative aspect to your marketing generally.
Share some parts when you get your free community.
Share more details with the paid community (because here, people resonate deeply with you).
Remember these rules of an impactful brand.
It’s beyond your painful experiences.
You are a whole person.
If something bad (speaking as per general psychology here) happened to you, you surely have chosen this experience to rise above it. It’s not your journey that inspires people to heal, but what you have achieved with it.
The mindset of a person marketing with wholeness.
A person with impactful marketing through storytelling thinks in the following ways.
- Everyone has suffered in some way at different levels of life.
- This is how I remembered my wholeness.
- I am not here to help (not saying directly that also), but I am ready to attract people resonating with me while living my life and accepting all the opportunities life is giving me.
But here comes the best part of the question.
How to balance the mindset such that you can have a balance of mindset with offer or goal, because no matter if you have a temporary identity, it’s normal that right now you have an identity?
Let’s understand this with an example.
Suppose you are meant to walk from point A to point B
Between point A and point B, there are 80 steps.
And while being at point A, you were having 15 points of soul remembrance.
From points 13-25, you suffered a disease, learned a lot, and jumped to 45 soul awareness points.
Here is a rule.
The magnet (that you) can pull people who are 3 awareness points down and above you.
So you will naturally get opportunities to help people (in the easiest way) who are having 42,43,44 grade points, and you will gain a resonating pull towards people who are at 46,47,48.
Imagine if you are at stare number 45 how much efforts will it take from you to pull people at 15, even you will have to step down to help, but pulling people who are 1,2 or 3 steps behind is easy right (it’s natural for all the people to get attracted towards you, but generally not everyone knows that it’s easy for them to go to people at 18 for help, they get infatuated by people who are far away, it’s like not earning a penny and affirming to earn crores in a few months on your own just by saying affirmations).
You are at 45
And that’s your temporary identity, so you are not here to help anybody; it’s just life naturally giving you opportunities to serve people 3 steps down the line, and they can change as per your growth in life.
The rule is to create an offer with this identity, with awareness that it’s temporary (this way you will not look for something so unique that will last long, and you will also not fear change and chase certainty)
You will naturally become so flexible.
After some time, in years, you might be at 59 points.
So mindset of a shift in microniche with awareness of the ultimate goal (point B) with the skill to stay flexible for change of identity is all that you need to master.
The journey will become so smooth when you are ready to attract people who resonate with you.
This way, you will end up creating impact in society in many ways (with so many identities).
Believe me, you will get everything you are meant to get along the journey.
Please question everything as per your experiences and level of awareness, and modify the ways expressed here.
Thank you.